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Are you a Flashlight or a Star?

Are you a flashlight or a Star? 

When I say star I do not mean it in a hollywood way. Let me explain further. A flashlight can only light the way for one person. It shows that person how to get by in times of darkness. On the other hand, a star can light up the night sky, so that everyone can be given a chance to use its light.

So which one are you?

Many people will probably say that they are stars and help everyone all the time. That's great if everyone wants your help. You see in order for a flashlight to work a person has to put in batteries (give it ENERGY) and learn to use it. So therefore a person must be willing to allow you to help them, and they also must give you some of their energy so that you can help. A star may just give off light but no one wants or needs it, meanwhile the flashlight is there in times of need. The flashlight guides you in times of darkness but also allows you to go it alone if you no longer need it or want it.

So which one are you? 

There is no wrong or right answer to this. For me, I believe I am a bit of both. At times I just give off motivation to anyone who will listen. Most of the info falls on deaf ears. But there are also times when a person will reach out for a helping hand and it is in those times that I am more than happy to be a flashlight. 

- FLO 

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